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Looking Beyond the Behaviour

Fri, 11 Sep 2026 10:24:47 GMT

What Might Self-Injurious Behaviour Be Communicating?

When a child or young person is hurting themselves, our understandable instinct is to focus on stopping the behaviour.

But sometimes an important first question is:

What might this behaviour be communicating?

For some neurodivergent children and young people, self-injurious behaviour may occur at times of significant distress, overwhelm or dysregulation — particularly when they are unable to communicate what they need in another way.

There may be many contributing factors, including:

• Anxiety or frustration

• Sensory overload

• Communication difficulties

• Changes to routines or expectations

• Too many demands

• Tiredness, hunger or physical discomfort

• Feeling a loss of control

• Accumulated overwhelm

And the person themselves may not necessarily be able to explain why it is happening — particularly when they are already overwhelmed.

In the moment, lots of questions may therefore add to the cognitive load. Reducing demands and sensory input where possible, using simple language, creating space and allowing time for regulation may be more helpful.

When things are calmer, we can explore different ways of communicating needs, emotions and overwhelm. These don’t always need to rely on spoken language. Visuals, colours, symbols, gestures, written words, emojis or other agreed methods can all provide alternative ways to communicate.

It can also be useful to look for patterns:

What happened beforehand?

What was the environment like?

Had something changed?

Were there lots of demands?

What happened afterwards?

And what appeared to help?

The aim isn’t simply to manage a behaviour.

It’s to understand the person experiencing it.

And because self-injurious behaviour can carry a risk of harm, it is important that families and those supporting a child or young person seek appropriate professional advice rather than feeling they have to understand or manage it alone.

Sometimes behaviour is communication.

Our job is to remain curious enough to ask what it might be telling us.

Useful resources

National Autistic Society – Self-injurious behaviour
Self-injurious behaviour guidance
Challenging Behaviour Foundation – Self-injurious behaviour
Self-injurious behaviour resources and guidance
NICE – Challenging behaviour and learning disabilities (NG11)
NICE guideline NG11
NICE – Learning disabilities and behaviour that challenges: service design and delivery (NG93)
NICE guideline NG93
National Autistic Society – Autism and self-harm
Autism and self-harm guidance
NHS – Where to get help for self-harm
NHS self-harm support and advice

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David, a former Specialist Educational Needs and Trauma-informed teacher, is an Inclusion and Wellbeing Consultant, with 25+ years of experience, training across all strands of Diversity & Inclusion, who champions the right of every individual to achieve their fullest potential, both personally and professionally, so that they are not held back by the limiting labels imposed upon them by others.

He is an Associate Consultant and Trainer for the Onvero, EMBED Inclusion , and FireBird, and is represented as a Public Speaker by Champions Speakers , Diversity and Inclusion Speakers Agency , The Motivational Speakers Agency , All American Entertainment , and Evolve Talent and Speakers .

Additionally, he is the founder and coordinator of the international Give ‘em Hope Campaign ; Marriage Equality Pioneer who successfully campaigned for a change in marriage legislation by taking a legal case to the European Court of Human Rights with Equal Love UK and writer of the soon to be published LGBTQ+ Role Model book, Never Blend In .

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Thankful Friday

Fri, 04 Sep 2026 07:27:52 GMT

Creating Respectful Workplace Cultures

Yesterday I had the pleasure of spending the day with colleagues at Cargill , delivering two sessions on Creating Respectful Workplace Cultures.

And this Thankful Friday, I’m feeling particularly grateful for the people who made the day such a positive experience.

One of the things I love about facilitating this kind of work is that no two sessions are ever the same. We can have a carefully planned slide deck and activities ready to go, but sometimes we need to be completely organic — listening to what is happening in the room, responding to what feels most relevant to participants and allowing the conversations that matter to develop.

Yesterday was a great example of that.

I thoroughly enjoyed both sessions and really appreciated the genuine interest, openness and willingness of colleagues to contribute as we explored respect, workplace behaviours, psychological safety and the part we can all play in creating cultures where people feel valued, included and able to speak up.

A huge thank you to Emma, Siân and Philip for coordinating everything, and a particularly big thank you to Siân, who looked after me brilliantly throughout the day and made sure everything ran smoothly.

And I have to give a special mention to the lovely receptionist who gave me the warmest welcome when I arrived and then, at the end of the day, went out of her way to help me work out how to get back to Lincoln.

It might seem like a small thing, but those moments of warmth, kindness and looking out for someone matter. In fact, they’re a pretty good demonstration of exactly what we’d been talking about all day — workplace culture is created through the everyday behaviours and interactions we have with one another.

So, on this Thankful Friday, thank you to everyone at Cargill who contributed to such an engaging, welcoming and positive day.

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Supporting Autistic and otherwise Neurodivergent Children Through the School Holidays

Wed, 12 Aug 2026 13:26:55 GMT

A Different Kind of Summer

For many children, the summer holidays are presented as something to look forward to: six weeks without school, more freedom, holidays, days out and opportunities to spend time with family and friends.

For an autistic child, summer can absolutely be enjoyable too. But it can also bring challenges that are easily overlooked.

School, despite all the demands it may bring, often provides structure and predictability. There are familiar routines, known expectations and recognisable patterns to the day. When the summer holidays arrive, much of that can disappear overnight.

Suddenly, days may be less predictable. There may be holidays, visitors, unfamiliar places, busy attractions, changes to mealtimes and sleep routines, increased socialising and the expectation that children should be constantly doing something because they are "on holiday".

For some autistic children, that can be exhausting.

Perhaps we need to rethink what a successful summer actually looks like.

You don't have to fill every day

There can be enormous pressure on parents and carers to create a summer packed with experiences.

But more isn't necessarily better.

An autistic child may benefit from having space between activities, maintaining familiar routines and knowing that they don't have to participate in everything.

A day at home engaging with a favourite interest isn't necessarily a "wasted day". It might be exactly what that child needs.

The goal doesn't have to be keeping children constantly entertained. Instead, we can focus on creating the conditions in which they feel safe, understood and in control .

Keep some predictability

The school routine may have disappeared, but that doesn't mean all structure has to disappear with it.

Keeping a few familiar anchors — perhaps waking, meals and bedtime — can make the day feel more predictable without creating an overly rigid timetable.

Visual schedules, calendars or simple written plans can also help.

If you're going somewhere, try explaining in advance what will happen: where you're going, how you're getting there, who will be there, what you might do and approximately when you'll return.

And if plans change, give as much warning as you reasonably can.

For many autistic children, knowing what to expect reduces the amount of uncertainty they have to process .

Think about the sensory environment

Summer itself can create additional sensory demands.

Heat. Bright sunlight. Crowds. Noise. Unfamiliar smells. Busy airports. Festivals. Theme parks. Restaurants. Different beds. Different foods.

Before assuming that a child simply doesn't want to participate, consider what the environment may be asking of their sensory system.

Could you visit somewhere at a quieter time? Could the outing be shorter? Is there somewhere quiet they can retreat to? Could headphones or ear defenders, sunglasses, familiar clothing, sensory aids or a favourite object help?

And importantly, can they leave if it becomes too much?

Sometimes the most effective adjustment isn't teaching a child to tolerate an overwhelming environment. It's changing the environment so that it becomes less overwhelming .

Communicate differently

Communication is another area where small changes can make a significant difference.

Use clear, direct language and allow processing time. Try not to repeat a question several times simply because an answer hasn't arrived immediately.

And remember that spoken communication isn't the only valid form of communication.

Writing, texting, pictures, gestures or other communication methods may sometimes be easier.

Rather than asking, "What's wrong?", which can be an incredibly difficult question to answer when someone is already overwhelmed, it may be more helpful to offer concrete possibilities:

Is it too noisy? Do you need some space? Would you like to leave?

Communication should help a child express what they need, not become another demand they have to manage.

Give genuine choice and autonomy

Children need boundaries, of course, but they also benefit from having meaningful control over aspects of their lives.

Instead of automatically deciding the day's activities, offer manageable choices:

"Would you rather go swimming or stay at home today?"

"Would you like to come with us or have some quiet time?"

"Would you like to stay another half-hour or go home?"

And wherever possible, allow "no" to be a legitimate answer.

Giving autonomy doesn't mean abandoning boundaries or responsibilities. It means recognising that autistic children should have a voice in decisions that affect them.

That is also how we begin developing self-advocacy .

Don't underestimate the importance of interests

An autistic child's passionate or focused interests are sometimes viewed as something adults should broaden, interrupt or limit.

But those interests can provide far more than entertainment.

They may offer familiarity, expertise, enjoyment, connection, predictability and an important means of self-regulation.

Summer can provide a wonderful opportunity to let children spend more time exploring the

things that genuinely fascinate them.

Instead of asking, "How do we get them away from this interest?", we might ask, "How can we use this interest to help them connect, learn, relax and enjoy their summer?"

Support regulation, rather than demanding compliance

Stimming, movement, pacing, rocking, repeating favourite words or phrases, using sensory objects or spending time alone can all serve an important regulatory purpose.

Before asking a child to stop something, consider why they might be doing it .

Are they overwhelmed?

Are they regulating sensory input?

Are they anxious?

Are they trying to communicate something?

Are they simply happy?

If a behaviour isn't causing harm, we don't automatically need to suppress it simply because it looks different.

The question becomes less "How do I make them stop?" and more "What is this telling me about what they need?"

Remember that enjoyable things can still be exhausting

A child can love an activity and still need significant recovery time afterwards.

A family gathering, theme park, holiday, cinema trip or afternoon with friends may have been genuinely enjoyable while also requiring enormous amounts of sensory, social and emotional processing.

That's why downtime matters.

Rather than scheduling one activity after another, consider building recovery time into the plan from the beginning.

Sometimes an empty day on the calendar is an adjustment in itself.

Teach self-advocacy — and then listen

One of the most valuable things we can give autistic children is the confidence to understand and communicate their own needs.

Help them develop language — spoken or otherwise — to communicate:

"It's too noisy."

"I need a break."

"I don't understand."

"Please don't touch me."

"I need more time."

"I want to leave."

But teaching those phrases is only half of the equation.

Adults then need to listen when children use them.

If we encourage children to communicate their boundaries but routinely override those boundaries when they're inconvenient, we're not really teaching self-advocacy.

We're teaching them that speaking up doesn't change anything.

Let their summer look like their summer

Perhaps one of the biggest adjustments adults can make is letting go of our own idea of what childhood summers are supposed to look like.

For one child, the perfect summer might involve travelling, adventure and being surrounded by people.

For another, it might mean familiar food, favourite clothes, long periods engaged in a special interest, fewer social demands, predictable routines and plenty of time at home.

Neither is inherently better.

Neuroinclusion isn't about helping autistic children become better at tolerating environments designed without them in mind. It is about recognising barriers, respecting individual needs and being willing to change what we do too.

So perhaps one question can guide parents and carers throughout the summer:

Don't just ask, "How can I help my child cope with this environment?"

Ask, "What can I change about the environment so they don't have to work so hard to cope?"

That small shift can make a very big difference.

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Creating Inclusive and Psychologically Safe Environments

Fri, 24 Jul 2026 11:49:34 GMT

It’s What We Create Together

As another busy week draws to a close, I’ve been reflecting on the brilliant people I’ve had the pleasure of meeting and working with over the past few days.

It has been one of those weeks that reminds me why I love doing what I do.

Across the sessions I’ve delivered, people have been friendly, engaged and engaging, bringing curiosity, candour and openness to our conversations. Without exception, they have brought their own experiences, insights and perspectives into the room and been willing to share them generously with others.

And that matters, because the best learning spaces are never simply about what the facilitator brings into the room.

They’re about what we create together.

What does an inclusive and psychologically safe environment actually look like?

We can sometimes make inclusion sound far more complicated than it needs to be.

Policies, frameworks and strategies are important, of course, but ultimately people experience inclusion through their interactions with other people.

It is in whether we feel listened to. Whether somebody takes an interest in what we have to say. Whether our needs are anticipated rather than treated as an inconvenience. Whether we can ask a question without feeling foolish, make a mistake without being diminished, or offer a different perspective without fearing how it will be received.

This week, particularly when thinking about our work with young people, we explored some of the ways we can intentionally create environments that feel both inclusive and psychologically safe.

For me, that includes showing empathy and genuine curiosity, communicating with respect and kindness, listening actively without judgement and valuing every young person’s voice and perspective.

It means using inclusive and accessible language, encouraging participation without pressure, recognising and responding to individual needs and finding different ways for

everyone to contribute.

It also means normalising mistakes as part of learning and building trust through consistency and authenticity.

None of these things requires us to have all the answers.

They require us to pay attention to the people in front of us.

Then I asked colleagues what they thought

One of the things I particularly enjoyed this week was hearing how colleagues themselves create inclusive and psychologically safe environments.

The Post-it notes quickly filled up.

There were some practical suggestions: understanding access requirements in advance; setting clear expectations around roles and responsibilities; creating group agreements; thinking carefully about how information is communicated; and deliberately making time for one-to-one conversations.

But there were also lots of wonderfully human responses.

Being a friendly face.

Creating a warm welcome.

Listening.

Being open and approachable.

Being curious about people and their lives.

Creating space for questions and concerns.

And even using fun and silly icebreakers.

One colleague talked about treating everyone as an individual and adapting their approach.

Another highlighted recognising that everyone brings different lived experiences into the room.

Others spoke about listening, recognising and empathising with people’s thoughts and opinions; building relationships that allow for open and honest conversations; sharing some of their own experiences and anxieties where appropriate; and creating an open-door culture where people know they can talk.

There were also important contributions about checking in, creating appropriate boundaries and being direct but fair .

Taken individually, some of these things might seem small.

Collectively, however, they describe something much bigger.

Psychological safety is created in the everyday

What struck me looking at all those Post-it notes was how few of the responses were about grand initiatives.

They were about behaviour .

They were about how we communicate, listen, respond, welcome, include and relate to one another.

That is important because we cannot simply announce that an environment is inclusive or psychologically safe and expect people to believe us.

People decide whether they feel safe through their experiences.

If I tell somebody that their voice matters but repeatedly interrupt them, what have I communicated?

If I say everyone is welcome but haven't considered whether everyone can access the space, how inclusive is that welcome?

If I encourage people to contribute but only value the loudest or most confident voices, who might I be missing?

And if I tell people it is okay to make mistakes but respond harshly when they do, which message are they actually going to believe?

Culture is not simply what we say. It is what people repeatedly experience.

Inclusion doesn’t mean treating everybody the same

Another theme running through many of the contributions was adaptability.

Treating people fairly doesn't necessarily mean treating everybody identically.

Different people arrive with different experiences, communication preferences, strengths, needs, anxieties and ways of participating.

For some people, contributing confidently in a large group might feel completely natural.

Someone else may need time to process a question before responding. Another person might communicate far more effectively one-to-one.

Someone may need information in advance. Someone else may need an adjustment to participate fully. And sometimes people simply need to know that choosing not to contribute at a particular moment is also acceptable.

Creating an inclusive environment therefore requires curiosity rather than assumption.

Instead of asking, “Why aren't they participating in the way I expected?”, perhaps we should ask: “What might help this person participate in a way that works for them?”

That small shift can completely change our approach.

Leadership happens in these moments too

Although many of this week's conversations were about working effectively with young people, I think the lessons apply far more widely.

They apply to managers, leaders, trainers, educators and colleagues.

Leadership isn't demonstrated only through strategies, decisions and targets. It is also demonstrated in those everyday moments when somebody approaches us with a concern, makes a mistake, disagrees with us, needs something different or simply wants to know that somebody is listening.

Do we make time?

Do we become defensive?

Do we make assumptions?

Or do we remain curious?

Creating healthy workplace cultures requires people who understand that how we make people feel when they interact with us matters.

What we create together

Perhaps that is my biggest reflection from this week.

As a facilitator, I can prepare the content, design the activities, ask the questions and create the conditions for conversation.

But I cannot create the learning experience alone.

Everyone in the room contributes to it.

Every question, challenge, story, reflection and different perspective adds something that wasn't there before.

That is why I am so grateful to everyone who has joined me this week and contributed with such generosity, curiosity and candour.

It has felt genuinely productive and collaborative, but more importantly, it has reminded me of something fundamental to my work:

Inclusion isn't something we do to people. It is something we create with people.

And sometimes its foundations are remarkably simple:

Listen. Be curious. Be kind. Be adaptable. Make space. Build trust.

And perhaps throw in the occasional silly icebreaker too.

So, to all the clients and colleagues I’ve had the pleasure of working with this week: thank you.

You have taught me things too.

Have a wonderful weekend.

David E. Hull-Watters
People & Culture Partner | Inclusion & Wellbeing Specialist

Culture & Leadership

Wed, 22 Jul 2026 16:03:48 GMT

I’d be really interested to hear from others working in this space: how is your work evolving, and what are organisations asking you for now that they weren’t asking for a year or two ago?

Over the past week, I’ve been really thankful to speak with a number of colleagues working across inclusion, People & Culture and organisational development, and to hear just how similar our experiences have been.

There is a definite shift taking place in the conversations organisations are having, the language they are using and the support they are looking for. For me, those conversations have helped crystallise where my own work is heading.

My focus is increasingly on Culture & Leadership : helping organisations develop the people, behaviours and environments that enable everyone to do their best work.

That means developing emerging and aspiring leaders with the confidence, self-awareness and practical skills to lead diverse people effectively.

It means creating workplace cultures where people feel valued, respected and able to contribute — where they can share ideas, ask questions, offer different perspectives and learn without fear of judgement.

And it means equipping people with the confidence and skills to communicate openly and respectfully, navigate differences, address issues when they arise and build stronger working relationships.

Inclusion remains fundamental to my work. I’m not moving away from inclusion; I’m widening the conversation around it.

Rather than treating inclusion as something separate, I want to place it where I believe it has always belonged: at the heart of good leadership, positive workplace culture and the everyday experience of people at work.

Because ultimately, culture is created in the everyday.

It’s how we lead. How we listen. How we communicate. How we respond when someone speaks up. How we navigate difference and disagreement. How we make decisions. And how people experience us when things become difficult.

For me, this isn’t about abandoning the work I’ve done before. It’s about taking everything I’ve learned through years of inclusion work and applying it more broadly to the challenges organisations and their people are facing now.

That’s the direction I’m excited to be taking my work.

Culture. Leadership. Communication. Inclusion.

All with the same purpose I’ve always had: helping create workplaces where people can belong, contribute and thrive.

Are organisations moving away from inclusion, or are we beginning to recognise that inclusion needs to be embedded much more deeply within leadership and workplace culture?

Explore my Culture & Leadership work

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People and Culture vs DEI

Fri, 17 Jul 2026 10:02:56 GMT

People & Culture isn’t replacing inclusion. It’s where inclusion delivers its greatest impact.

Over the past year, I’ve noticed a significant shift in the conversations I’m having with clients.

Fewer organisations are asking for “DEI training.”

Instead, they’re asking how to:

• retain talented people

• develop better managers

• improve wellbeing and engagement

• build psychologically safe teams

• strengthen workplace culture

• navigate change with confidence

These aren’t different conversations.

They’re the natural evolution of them.

For me, inclusion has never been about ticking boxes or delivering one-off awareness sessions. It’s always been about helping organisations create environments where people can thrive and, in doing so, achieve better outcomes for everyone.

That’s why I’m increasingly describing myself as a People & Culture Partner.

The title may have evolved, but the purpose remains the same: helping organisations build stronger leaders, healthier cultures and workplaces where talented people want to stay.

If that’s the direction your organisation is heading, I’d love to be part of the journey.

Find out more about my approach at www.inclusionconsultant.co.uk/about-us

Why Partner with David?

Today’s most successful organisations understand that people and culture are not support functions—they are strategic drivers of performance, innovation and sustainable growth.

David E. Hull-Watters partners with forward-thinking organisations to help leaders build workplaces where people perform at their best because they feel respected, trusted and able to contribute authentically.

Combining award-winning expertise, lived experience and a commercially aware approach, David works with People & Culture, HR, Learning & Development and leadership teams to turn organisational values into everyday behaviours. His programmes move beyond awareness to develop confident leaders, strengthen psychological safety, improve employee experience and create cultures where people and organisations thrive together.

Every session is tailored to your organisation’s priorities, whether that’s attracting and retaining talent, developing inclusive leadership, supporting wellbeing, navigating organisational change or embedding a culture of belonging that drives engagement and performance.

Clients value David’s ability to balance empathy with challenge, combining compelling storytelling with practical strategies that inspire reflection, spark meaningful conversations and deliver lasting behavioural change.

If your ambition is to build a workplace where great people choose to join, stay and succeed, David will help you create the culture that makes it possible.

Because exceptional organisations are built by exceptional cultures—and exceptional cultures are built by exceptional leaders.

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Having Difficult Conversations

Thu, 16 Jul 2026 10:00:40 GMT

Building Confidence Through Courage and Compassion

Most of us don't avoid difficult conversations because we don't care—we avoid them because we don't know how to begin. Yet handled well, these conversations can strengthen relationships, build trust and create healthier workplace cultures.

Preparation is key. Be clear about the behaviour you want to discuss, the impact it has had and the outcome you're hoping to achieve. Approach the conversation with curiosity rather than judgement, listen actively, acknowledge emotions and focus on understanding before responding.

Simple conversation starters can make all the difference. Frameworks such as "When you... I feel... because... In future I would like..." or asking open questions like "Could you tell me more about what you mean?" help create dialogue rather than defensiveness. Separating intent from impact, encouraging empathy and challenging stereotypes respectfully can all lead to more constructive outcomes.

Successful conversations also depend on emotional intelligence. Choose the right environment, allow space for silence, preserve the relationship, remain consistent and agree clear actions before closing the discussion. Like any skill, confidence grows with practice.

Difficult conversations are rarely easy, but they are often where the greatest learning, growth and positive change begin.

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Bias isn’t always loud and obvious

Thu, 16 Jul 2026 08:31:08 GMT

We often think of bias as something overt. The offensive comment. The public confrontation. The headline-making incident.

But bias is just as likely to appear in the moments that go unnoticed by everyone except the person experiencing them.

It’s being overlooked despite your experience. Being held to a different standard. Having your concerns questioned or dismissed.

Feeling that you have to work twice as hard to be taken seriously. Watching opportunities quietly pass you by without ever knowing why.

Sometimes it’s the assumptions people make about your age, your disability, your race, your faith, your gender, your sexual orientation, your gender identity, your neurodivergence, your accent or your background.

Sometimes it’s not what is said at all, but what isn’t.

Any one of these moments might seem insignificant in isolation. They can be explained away, rationalised or dismissed as coincidence.

Yet when they happen repeatedly, they create a pattern that affects confidence, wellbeing, trust and a person’s sense of belonging.

The reality is that many of us, particularly those from underrepresented or marginalised communities, recognise this feeling. While our experiences are not identical, there is often far more that unites us than divides us.

That’s why inclusion isn’t about deciding whose barriers matter most. It’s about recognising that everyone deserves to be treated with dignity, fairness and respect. When we listen to one another, remain curious about experiences different from our own and challenge bias wherever we encounter it, we create environments where everyone has the opportunity to thrive.

We are stronger when we stand together than when we allow ourselves to be divided.

Because bias isn’t always loud and obvious, but its impact can be profound.

What does “quiet bias” look like to you, and what can we all do to recognise and challenge it?

#Bias #Inclusion #Belonging #PsychologicalSafety #PeopleAndCulture

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Thu, 16 Jul 2026 08:27:01 GMT

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Behind Every Case is a Person: Impact Matters. People Matter

Thu, 16 Jul 2026 08:21:45 GMT

Over the past few months I’ve been involved in a formal complaint that has forced me to reflect on something much bigger than the individual issues themselves.

The complaint isn’t really about one investigation or one decision. It’s about what happens when organisations lose sight of the human being behind the case.

A straightforward issue became a prolonged process.

Communication broke down.

Assumptions replaced conversations.

Delays created uncertainty.

The cumulative impact on our wellbeing became far greater than the original issue ever warranted.

One of the things I explore in my training is that impact matters just as much as intent.

Most people don’t come to work intending to cause distress, yet processes that aren’t person-centred can do exactly that.

Whether we work in housing, healthcare, education, HR or customer services, every policy is experienced by a real person with their own circumstances, history, health and vulnerabilities.

Sometimes the most important question isn’t, “Have we followed the process?”

It’s, “Have we treated this person with dignity, curiosity and compassion?”

That’s why I’ve always believed that inclusion isn’t a separate agenda.

It’s about how we communicate, how we make decisions, how we exercise judgement and how we make people feel.

If any good comes from this experience, I hope it’s a reminder that organisations don’t build trust through policies alone. They build it through everyday interactions, proportionality, empathy and genuinely person-centred leadership.

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Practical, Outcome-focussed DEI Training

Fri, 04 Jul 2025 12:26:59 GMT

An Holistic Approach to Inclusion and Wellbeing

Are you looking to create a truly inclusive workplace or community space?

I believe that inclusion is not just a box to tick - it’s a culture to build.

I’m a passionate advocate for intersectional inclusion, because we are all beautifully multifaceted humans who can collectively bring so much to our communities when given the psychological space to thrive.

I provide training, consultancy, and keynote talks tailored to help organisations embed real, lasting change.

Get in touch, if you’d like to work collaboratively to foster environments where everyone can thrive.

Let’s move beyond “diversity statements” and into real action.

Find out more: www.inclusionconsultant.co.uk

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Calling all Agents and Publishers - LGBTQIA+ Non-fiction

Fri, 04 Jul 2025 12:18:42 GMT

NEVER BLEND IN is almost ready - find out more

Time to get myself a publisher or an agent, so that I can finally get this book out there! Any leads or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Never Blend In is more than a book - it’s a movement for change.

Created by David E. Hull-Watters, Never Blend In: LGBTQ+ Stories of Resilience and Empowerment shares powerful, authentic voices from across the LGBTQIA+ spectrum.

This project uplifts stories of survival, joy, and resistance - especially from those too often pushed to the margins, including trans, nonbinary, BIPOC, disabled, and neurodivergent LGBTQIA+ people.

It’s a call to action: to listen, to learn, and to lead with empathy.

Learn more & get involved: https://www.inclusionconsultant.co.uk/neverblendin

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Exciting Champions Speakers Agency News

Thu, 26 Jun 2025 13:45:40 GMT

David Hull-Watters joins the Champions Speakers Agency as their Leading DEI Keynote Speaker

I'm thrilled to announce a new chapter in my journey as a leading Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) speaker in the UK. I've partnered with Champions Speakers , the UK's premier keynote speaker agency, to extend the reach and impact of my work.

For years, I've been dedicated to fostering inclusive environments through my work as a specialist trauma-informed teacher, as an inclusion consultant and campaigner, and as creator of the Give 'em Hope Campaign. My expertise spans neurodiversity, LGBTQ+ inclusion, and mental health awareness, and I've had the privilege of collaborating with esteemed organisations like the British Transport Police, His Majesty’s Prison and Probation Service, and the British Library.

These experiences have reinforced my commitment to creating workplaces where everyone can thrive.

Joining forces with Champions Speakers, as their leading DEI keynote speaker, is a significant step forward. Their reputation for connecting audiences with top-tier speakers aligns perfectly with my mission to inspire positive change. This partnership will enable me to engage with a broader audience, sharing insights and strategies that promote inclusivity and well-being across various sectors.

Chris Tompkins, Senior Keynote Manager at Champions Speakers, shared his excitement about the partnership:

“We’re absolutely thrilled to be working with David Hull-Watters. His dedication to championing DEI and creating lasting cultural change is both inspiring and timely. David brings a wealth of lived experience and professional insight that will greatly benefit our clients and their audiences.”

I'm excited about the opportunities this collaboration brings and look forward to contributing to a more inclusive future. Together with Champions Speakers, the parent company which also includes the Diversity and Inclusion Speakers Agency , and the Mental health Speakers Agency we aim to empower individuals and organisations to embrace diversity and create environments where everyone feels valued and supported.

If you're interested in learning more about my work or booking me for an event, please visit the Champions Speakers website. https://champions-speakers.co.uk/speaker-agent/david-hull-watters